You may not leave $300.00 on the dresser or in a bowl on the coffee table, but ultimately, you pay for sex.
How much did dinner and a movie cost? What about that nice gift and the
bottle of good wine? Don’t forget a bouquet of flowers
or half dozen fresh roses. Yes, you pay for sex one way or another. The ladies
spend a few bucks for sex as well. My wife, Loren, can add her point of
view.
LOREN: “Sometimes I think a woman will spend more than the man.
Sexy lingerie doesn’t come cheap and if the lady wants to cater to a gentleman a
little bit, she’ll have a selection of outfits. Then consider more money for the
dinner dress and a new pair of heels.” She laughs. “The heels I wear with my sex
outfits aren’t exactly street shoes.”
TANNER: Tell us about our
experience yesterday, which also involved paying for sex.
LOREN: “Right,
the adult store. Friends of ours own the business and do quite well. We were
shopping there yesterday. Everything in there is expensive and it’s all to
enhance having sex!”
TANNER: To my surprise, there were about six young
women buying outfits, sexy heels, various toys and oils. Even if they were bi or
gay, it’s still sex and money is being spent on it. Take our business for
example. Loren, you explain it; you do most of the work anyway.
LOREN:
“We run a private modeling/video service for gentlemen who don’t want to go to
an adult store or buy sexy outfits by mail order. We handle one client at a
time, in our studio, in a discrete manner. The customer responds to one of our
ads, sets an appointment and comes to our place. He watches a video of me in
sexy lingerie. Each outfit costs at least $150.00. Brandon takes care of the
viewing process while I wait in the studio already dressed in one of the
outfits.”
TANNER: The video breaks the ice and makes the client feel more
comfortable. He really wants to see Loren in person.
LOREN: “The
gentleman gets excited by the video because he sees his girlfriend mistress or
wife wearing the outfits. Then he meets me and experiences the pleasure which
the lingerie will bring him.”
TANNER: Once the client sees Loren actually
wearing the outfits, the sale is in the bag and he’s paid for sex yet to
come.
LOREN: “On occasion the program reverses; we get women setting up a
private viewing. That becomes real fun for me; the ladies want to mix and match
the outfits, try them on and sometimes … try me on. That part I
love!”
TANNER: So do I because I get to watch – sometimes I get
–
LOREN: “Brandon – enough!” She slaps his leg. “Bottom line is;
purchasing the garments, garters, nylons and heels is paying for sex in
advance.”
TANNER: So how would you evaluate the client’s attitude when
he/she shells out two or three hundred bucks for the outfits and then more on
dinner and a movie?
LOREN: “Simple. If the guy doesn’t actually hand the
cash to his sex partner, he’s not paying for the act. I have no idea how they
can see it that way but nearly all of them do.”
TANNER: It’s the Clinton
syndrome.
LOREN: “The what?”
TANNER: Former President Clinton’s
stupid statement, “I did not have sex with that woman!” He didn’t think oral sex
was having a sexual encounter. Your comment above covers the issue
perfectly.
LOREN: “It does because it’s just a macho-mental thing. There
are other possible costs involved in a sexual encounter whether you’re sneaking
around on a girlfriend or your wife.”
TANNER: Which are?
LOREN:
“First, the obvious … disease. The Internet is full of Hot Lady – Cum Fuck Me
ads, which I think most are fake, maybe not, but pretty close. If they are real
and you connect, how do you know what you’re getting into? It’s a risk with or
without condoms. Don’t plunge in until you know what dangers you’re really
entering into.”
TANNER: Which are?
LOREN: “Getting caught by the
girlfriend or wife, which can be really costly. Another good one is the sexy
weekend fling who didn’t understand the words no commitment. That one can strike
you at work or in a stray piece of email that just happens to get read by the
wrong eyes.”
TANNER: Thank you, Loren, as usual your comments are
enlightening. In summation, I think we can understand the main concept here.
There is no such thing as a free lunch and no such thing as free
sex!
Take care,
Brandon Tanner